Showing posts with label scouting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label scouting. Show all posts

Monday, September 24, 2012

A Long Post About A Short Phone Call

Let me set the scene. Mikey and Gavin are gone with Dennis to a scout engagement with a hockey game to follow, Sean is sleeping and Ethan is happily entertained in the house. It's a pretty unique moment in time.

Although I usually go to every stinkin' things the boys do spectate most activities, I decided that I would stay home, clean out my garden, do some work in the yard, etc. So, with this knowledge I start to plan the next several hours. I should have known better. 

The phone rings and it's Dennis with a very simple request, 'can you please bring Mikey's hockey pants here, he forgot them.' Even as I type it, it sounds so simple. Almost nothing around here is simple. I ask what time it is and what time he needs the pants. I have 45 minutes to get hockey pants 5 minutes away.

Here's why it's not easy. 

Sean is asleep and waking him results in at least 20 minutes of truly pathetic crying and I pray that he will magically wake up before I have to resort to waking him.

I realize that if I drive Sean and Ethan to the park where the scouting event is, they will figure out it is an Ice Cream Social and will want stay and have ice cream - understandably. But I now have a dirt-streaked face and arms, pants that are cruddy, and my hands and nails look like I am a heavy machine operator. My hair is greasy and I stink. I know that I will have to get out of the car and know that I am going to have to clean myself up.

I inform Ethan that we need to bring Mikey his hockey pants and he informs me that he does not want to go by throwing a couple of empty DS Game boxes at me. Remember, one of Ethan's super-powers is his unrelenting negativity. I told him to quit the crap informed him that it was totally unacceptable to do that and to go get ready. He said no. 

Thank God, Sean woke up, but was no happier to hear that we were leaving the house as I had vehemently promised that he could play Wii as soon as he woke up. He screamed at me that I had lied to him let me know how disappointed he was. Please, Sean, get a shirt and some shoes. He said no.

Time is ticking and we are now down to 20 minutes. I raise my voice and plead with them to just get in the car. Then I realize that I have not yet located the pants and I could have just as easily left without them. Then, I turn to bribery. I told the two of them that if they would just get in the car, there would be ice cream. It had only a modest effect on them. But as I was putting the finishing touches on covering up just how dirty I was and locating the pants, I realized that they were waiting for me in the car. As I grab my keys and walk out the door I see that Sean is running around the back of our rental car (remember, we don't have our van) because his car seat as been relocated to Dennis' truck for my use. SH%&, D*&M, CR*P. Uh-oh. 

I call Dennis to tell him I don't have a car seat for Sean and he says, 'well, then, never mind, I'll try to get there.' I tell Ethan and Sean that we don't need to go after all and they both throw their own particular brand of temper tantrum in response to having their ice cream bribe rescinded. Clock is still ticking. 

I quickly form a plan to beg a car seat off of my neighbor and it works! I put the car seat in and away we go. I back out, make a left and proceed down our street. Then I call Dennis and ask him where the ice cream social is being held! Armed with all the info I need, and even the pants, I make it to our destination. Ethan had no socks (and that is just a bad look for him) Sean had no shoes and I was not pulling of my pseudo-clean routine too well.

Because I was already at the venue where the hockey game was, I had got to stay for that too. So much for my plans and so much for 'easy'.
“The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity.
The optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”

— Winston Churchill

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Gavin - An Arrow of Light

I am a big fan of The Boy Scouts of America and of my boys being a part of it. All the boys, so far, have begun the ranks as Tiger Scouts (in fact they have all worn the same Tiger Scout hat and Sean will too). The first pack we were involved with was Branchburg Pack 315 because Ethan participated (and earned his Arrow of Light) at Midland School, which is located in Branchburg. Now we are involved in a pack in Greenbrook and enjoying it just as much.

Gavin works really hard on his cub scout requirements. I don't think he can fit anymore belt loops on his belt! He has received very nice recognition for his ambitions. He is finishing up his Cub Scout years and was recently awarded the Arrow of Light.


The cermony focused on the boys having learned the Law of the Pack and meeting all the requirements for advancement. The Arrow of Light symbol was used and 7 candles were lit for each of the tenants of the arrow - Wisdom, Courage, Self-control, Justice, Faith, Hope and Love.


There are 10 purposes of  cub scouting and 12 Core values - Citizenship, Compassion, Cooperation, Courage, Faith, Health and Fitness, Honesty, Perseverance, Positive Attitude, Resourcefulness, Respect, Responsibility, all of which we strive to instill in our boys. Our experience has been that if you work at the program with your boys, these values come up time and again.

There are still alot of activities to look forward to this scouting year including the upcoming Klondike Derby, Pinewood Derby, and a Blue & Gold Awards Banquet and Spring Cubelos camping. I look forward to our boys' continued participation in the scouting program, giving us years of challenge and fun ahead of us.

Congratulations, Gavin, for earning and being an Arrow of Light.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Gone to the Birds...& the stars

The boys attended a class at The Enviromental Education Center called "Wintertime Birds". They learned to focus binoculars properly and identify certain winter birds. They filled the bird feeders and listened to bird calls. They learned information about other winter animals, fur and winter animal behavior. At home, we set up some bird feeders and a bird watching station (no one has a bird at the feeders yet). We are also completing some activities on eNature.com.

We will be participating in The Great Backyard Bird Count - maybe you'll join us!


We also went to view "Wintertime Night Sky" at Raritan Valley Community College's Planetarium. It taught us how to look for 'asterisms' in the night sky. We got to see the sky at different times of night and it was really helpful - so helpful that we were able to come home and use our "Star Chart" and binoculars and actually find a bunch of stars we learned about - including Betelgeuse.


Sometimes kids just need a little exposure to something to get the wheels turning. Sometimes they don't care less what they've seen. Sometimes it comes up days and weeks later in them asking for another class or books on a topic. I don't see myself as my kids' teacher, I'm their mother - and I choose to spend my time introducing them to all that's out there.


"Learning can only happen when a child is interested. If he is not interested, it is like throwing marshmallows at his head and calling it eating." ~ Katrina Gutelben

Friday, November 19, 2010

Regatta in a raingutter

Mikey's boat stayed afloat, which is a good quality in a boat. Gavin's was apparently unbeatable! Go Boyz!

Friday, November 5, 2010

Trailside Nature and Science Center - Finally

We made it, and it was open. There are just so many interesting things to look.






This is an authentic replication of a bark house used by the Lenape Indians who inhabited the area. There was alot of artifacts to see and hold. There was plenty of information about the society, pictures and quiz yourself stations.



This was inside the nocturnal animals exhibit. It is a dark enclosure that runs about a 5 minute presentation on animals and insects that are out at night - really well done.


This tree was real - and was 518 years old! The green markers traced historical events through the rings of the tree growth. The center was estimated at 1420. Neat way to see history laid out.



Friday, October 15, 2010

What they saw today

Gavin has acquired a science/chemisty set he plans on looking at in the next couple of weeks. He assembled a "Bioscope" that came with it which magnified and using natural light, acutely lit whatever object was on the attached slide or in a small round container.

Items that made it into the bioscope: salt, pepper, wood splinter, a cicada, a cicada leg, a cicada wing, sand, soil and water from the fish tank.

Monday, October 11, 2010

A train ride


Ethan had off from school, so we rode the train just for fun. We left from the Dunellen station and went to Westfield. We got off for some Rita's Italian Ice and then headed back home. They had a great time - now the baby is obsessed with 'choo-choos'.


Monday, October 4, 2010

Cub Scout Camping

Ready...
Set....

Go!
I love that the boyz get this experience - makes great memories - and *LOTS* of laundry!!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

A walk in the Woods

We went hiking in Basking Ridge in Lord Stirling Park. We've done several trails this summer and fall and each time have seen an abundance of interesting things. These pics are from our most recent walk.





It wasn't until we downloaded the photos at home that we realized by the time the baby tried to pet the frog it had already hopped into his stroller! Do you see it? Yes, that's G & M investigating scat (yup, poop). They found small rodent remains. Decided it was fox.
"Teaching children about the natural world should be treated as one of the most important events of their lives." ~ Thomas Berry

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Bike Rodeo

The boys participated in a local bike rodeo. The police officers walk the kids through a bunch of safety guidelines and check for properly fitted gear. Then they send them on an obstacle course. This is also part of earning the cub scout pin for Bicycling.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

A pack of boys.

Pack meetings are a good time for scouts. There are opening ceremonies, the kids are presented with awards such as belt loops, pins and any other acknowledgements of things that went on during the month and then there is usually some type of activity. Tonight was games.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Cub Scouts starts again.

Welcome to the cub scout year...












Afternoon picnic for everyone and then...Frisbee Golf for Webelos

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Secret Codes

Secret codes were sent to far off places (Long Island) for decoding! Hoping to get some back in return.